nop, im not tryn 2 teach u guys groovy dance moves..
this is somthin which has been goin thru my mind these coupla days,
how com, v alwys tend to view everythin in OUR point of view?
lyk..4 an instance...a frnd of ours coms 2 us 4 advice..maybe shez fallen in2 som pitfall wotever...wot is the first thing v say (wit dat 'oh-m-so-smart' face) ? ''if i wer u...i wud..bla bla'' ....y do v revert to OURSELVES in d first place? i mean, y say 'if i wer u...' wen its not YOU.
same is in the case of Prejudice.
-hez not wearin branded jeans ---> there's a loser
-he has her own car ----> daddys spoild brat
-she duznt lyk goin out ----> spoilsport
-she broke up wit her boifrnd of 5 yrs ----> cold-blooded witch!
-she lyks Cradle of Filth ------> Psycho girl. She definitely nyds help.
-she talks in this shrillll annoyin voice ----> thui kannnnn!!!!
...........................isnt it???
it duznt HAV to b this way. maybe the jeans guy has his own kool style.maybe the car dude is one successful smart n hansom, ur typical 'most eligible' bachelor. maybe the spoilsport girl is a gud homely nyc girl.maybe the heart-breakr grrl finaly found courage to free herself from years of torture by her lunatic boifrnd. n maybe the Cradl of Filth grrl appreciates music in her own unique way. o maybe, the thui grrl talks in this shrill annoyin voice becuz...well, becuz she has this shrill annoyin voice..
m i talkin gibberish? :S
being totally objectiv, value-free, value neutral, unbiased - aint possible. It maybe, in a perfect world. hehe. But all m sayin is dat, without throwin smart commnts at anythin n evrythin at the very instant u c somone o somthin, y not atleast try 2 step in2 dat persons shoes?
aftr all, wen v say 'Plz try n Understand..' aint v actually begging b4 dat person 2....
''Please, for God's sake! Step outta ur smelly shoes n step in 2 mine???"
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aslu ehenneh noon dho ebunany?
you are just expressing your view to your friend
you are not forcing your friend to change their views like yours or summin
important point you've raised here. i think we've a tendency to be judgmental, & most of the time cynical, about others especially when it's something that you dont like. as u say, why not stop for a second to find out the real story behind them without jumping to conclusions...
Agree.. too many judgmental people with too much time on their hands..
this is 'habeysly obi'
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